Babyface 1997 Live Performance: “The Day (That You Gave Me a Son)”

In this January 1997 broadcast of The Dini Petty Show, Babyface performs “The Day (That You Gave Me a Son)” live in the Toronto studio — the title track from his 1996 album, and one of the few songs in his catalogue with a fixed, documented origin. He wrote it for his newborn son, and it was the song playing in the delivery room on the day the baby arrived.

That detail changes how the performance plays. This is the writer-producer behind Boyz II Men’s “End of the Road,” Madonna’s “Take a Bow” and Eric Clapton’s “Change the World” singing something he wrote for an audience of one, on daytime television, a few years before most of the world thought of him as a performer at all. The album it came from was the record on which he stepped out from behind the board at length, and this is the track that explains why he bothered.

The timing around it is remarkable. He sang this here just weeks before walking into the Grammys with twelve nominations, and months before he would write “A Song for Mama” for the Soul Food soundtrack. A live Babyface vocal from that stretch — the peak of his run as the most in-demand songwriter in American music — is a genuinely rare thing to have on tape. Sung live rather than mimed to a backing track, it puts a famously restrained voice on display without the layering his own productions are known for, and the studio audience hears the song more or less the way the delivery room did.

Unseen since its original broadcast, this master tape has been meticulously optimized and preserved via the official archive of The Dini Petty Show, safeguarding a rare solo performance from one of R&B’s defining writers.